Global cybercrime syndicates are making a terrifying pivot, ditching the drug trade to focus on lucrative romance scams that prey on people looking for connection. This isn’t small potatoes, either. The FBI reports that Americans lost over $16 billion to cybercrime, including these heartbreaking schemes, just in 2024.
One in seven American adults has already reported losing cash to fake online relationships. Cliff Steinhauer, director of information security and engagement at the National Cybersecurity Alliance, explained that “These scams rely on trust, affection, and urgency, which are all amplified around holidays focused on relationships.” So, they clearly prey on loneliness, especially on events like Valentine’s Day.
These scams are also much harder to spot now, thanks to AI. According to Politico, scammers use AI tools to create incredibly realistic online identities. These include deepfake images, videos, and even sophisticated voice cloning, where a real person’s voice is manipulated. The level of detail takes these cases far beyond petty fraud or extortion attempts.
Honestly, it is getting harder to spot the difference
Supervisory Senior Resident Agent Michael Rod, who leads an Elder Justice Task Force, confirmed just how much the criminal landscape has changed. “Four or five years ago … you’d get messages with spelling errors or poor punctuation. That was kind of a hint that, ‘Hey, something’s wrong here.’ That stuff no longer exists as a way to tip you off.”
Steinhauer added that scammers are now specifically trained to move conversations off dating platforms and into private messaging apps to better avoid detection. Rod also pointed out that while all demographics are targeted, older Americans are often the most victimized by these predatory schemes.
These are massive, coordinated operations run out of huge scam centers overseas, often based in Southeast Asian countries like Cambodia, Laos, and Myanmar. This international setup creates huge jurisdictional headaches for law enforcement trying to conduct investigations and collect evidence.
Rod confirmed the FBI is “taking some very creative approaches to combating” these centers, including establishing new partnerships with international authorities and local law enforcement. In November, the Justice Department created the Scam Center Strike Force, which requires federal agencies, including the FBI and Secret Service, to team up with the Treasury Department to use sanctions and criminal prosecution against these international syndicates.
Congress is also getting involved; a bipartisan group of House lawmakers introduced the National Strategy for Combating Scams Act in December to push for closer coordination between federal agencies and local law enforcement. Ultimately, turning off this criminal spigot requires you and me to be vigilant online since the scams follow clear patterns and “escalate unusually fast.”
As an expert noted, “The common thread is pressure. If someone is accelerating intimacy while steering you toward secrecy or money, pause.”
Published: Feb 16, 2026 08:55 am