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Black mom asks for her baby 5 hrs after C-section. Then nurse refuses to take hands off her baby and threatens police action: ‘Let’s call it what it is’

What Do CDC Statistics Show About Black Maternal Mortality Rates?

A TikTok video posted by What’s Cracking America (@whats_cracking_america) showed a tense hospital-room exchange that the account framed as happening five hours after a C-section. The video has drawn 2.3 million views, 232,100 likes, and more than 3,000 comments. On-screen text in the clip read, “Dealing with racism 5 hours after having a C-section.”

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The footage showed a nurse in teal scrubs and a mask standing beside a clear plastic bassinet that held a newborn. A security guard in a dark uniform stood farther back in the hallway. A woman, mostly off-screen and identified in the post as the mother, could be heard saying, “I want, I want, I want my baby.”

The nurse replied, “Okay, I will, I will press charges. You cannot record us. We have to give consent.” The mother answered that she had asked for her baby and said she was being nice. The nurse then said, “For the safety of your baby, because you are very hyped.”

Video narrator cites patient rights and CDC maternal mortality figures

The mother denied being “hyped” and said she was not recording. She asked the nurse to take her hands off the baby and added, “I just want to leave. That’s all I’m saying.” The nurse said the mother could leave, but that the baby would have to stay. The mother replied that the baby could not stay and referred to a 24-hour period. The mother’s experience reflects a broader pattern of medical disputes, such as when a woman left a review about her experience at an OB office after losing her baby.

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CDC data show Black women had a 2023 maternal mortality rate of 50.3 deaths per 100,000 live births, compared with 14.5 for white women, making the Black maternal death rate about 3.5 times higher. CDC also says Black women are three times more likely to die from pregnancy-related causes, with quality of care and structural inequities contributing to the gap. #MedicalRacism #BlackMaternalHealth #ProtectBlackMothers #BlackWomenDeserveCare

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The mother also said a nurse had claimed she pushed her and that she had not done so. She said she was asking to leave because she did not feel safe. The video showed the nurse placing her hands on the baby’s swaddled body in the bassinet as the mother said, “And I’m saying that I want you to just take your hands off my baby.”

The clip then cuts to a black screen with white text stating that a hospital is not a prison and that a patient can leave against medical advice, or AMA, especially if the person does not feel safe. An image of a “Leaving Hospital Against Medical Advice” form appeared on screen. An off-screen narrator repeated those points.

The narrator said the incident should lead into a larger topic about Black women and women of color and racism in birth, pregnancy, and postpartum care. The video’s caption cited CDC data showing that Black women had a 2023 maternal mortality rate of 50.3 deaths per 100,000 live births, compared with 14.5 for White women, and that the Black maternal death rate was about 3.5 times higher.

The caption also said the CDC reports that Black women are three times more likely to die from pregnancy-related causes, with quality of care and structural inequities contributing to the gap. For Black women, the complaints don’t stop at healthcare, as a separate incident at a Dallas restaurant allegedly involved a similar refusal of service.

On-screen graphics in the video included an infographic titled “BLACK MATERNAL HEALTH WEEK” that stated “80% OF PREGNANCY-RELATED DEATHS ARE PREVENTABLE.” Another graphic labeled “MORTALITY GAP FOR U.S. MOMS” compared “NON-HISPANIC BLACK WOMEN” at 40 deaths per 100,000 with “NON-HISPANIC WHITE WOMEN” at 12.4 deaths per 100,000. The narrator said Black women face three times the maternal mortality risk as White women.

The narrator quoted Serena Williams as saying, “DOCTORS AREN’T LISTENING TO US. THERE’S A LOT OF PRE-JUDGING…THAT DEFINITELY GOES ON, AND IT NEEDS TO BE ADDRESSED.” The narrator then said Black women and women of color are “3 to 4 times more likely to die during childbirth than white women,” and added that this is “not just from preeclampsia or hemorrhages, it’s from racism.” The narrator said, “Let’s call it what it is.”

Returning to the hospital clip, the narrator said, “Also, get your hands off of her baby. Resolve the issue. You don’t need to be touching her baby.” The narrator also said, “Also, I guarantee if a white woman would have told you, ‘Hands off of my baby,’ you probably would have listened.” The narrator added that anyone saying a person cannot record such an interaction “doesn’t want that interaction getting out and you being used against them.”

The narrator concluded that the situation “should have been handled so differently, and that is on the staff.” The narrator advised pregnant people to look up their hospital rights in their state, repeating that a hospital is not a prison and that a patient can leave of their own accord.

Some viewers said they thought key details were missing from the clip. One commenter wrote, “I feel like I’m missing a lot.” Another wrote, “There is some information missing.” Other commenters focused on the nurse’s hands on the newborn and on whether the mother could leave with the baby.

One wrote, “This is why I hate hospitals. They act like they own the baby.” Another wrote, “The woman daring to still touch her baby ANGERS MEEEE.” A further commenter wrote, “what was wrong with that staff?? she has every right to hold her baby and take her baby home before the 24 hour period it is not a law.”

One commenter wrote, “Her placing her hands on the baby was to antagonize her. She wanted her to lose control and get locked up! That is so sick!!!!” Others wrote, “I hope the nurse was fired” and “Why is she gaslighting the mother!”


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