New Jersey woman’s first date turns into a nightmare when the waiter confirms her fear. Now, she ‘can’t date men anymore’

A New Jersey woman named Andi recently shared a dating horror story on TikTok after her first date ditched her mid-meal, leaving her stuck with a staggering $450 bar bill. This is absolutely awful behavior, and frankly, it makes you wonder what people are thinking when they go out in public.

Dating is always a total gamble; you never really know who is sitting across from you until they show their true colors. For TikTok user Andi (@andimitchellll), that moment came midway through what was supposed to be a nice evening out. She posted a short video right from her car, clearly still processing the absolute chaos that had just unfolded. We haven’t see red flags like this in a while.

Andi explained the whole saga to her followers, saying that she went on a date with this guy, and then everything went completely sideways. She explains, “I just went on a date with a man,” and then the drama started. She stepped away to use the restroom, a completely normal thing to do, but when she came back, her date was acting really odd.

No one should get the whole bill for equal drinking

He wasn’t subtle about his exit either. Andi recalled that he simply told her, “He goes, ‘Yeah, I’m gonna go,’” and then he was gone. Really, no one would assume he left without even trying to help with the bill. However, she stepped outside, and the bartender, whom she happens to know well because her best friend works there, confirmed the terrible news. “Yeah, he just left,” she recounted.

Apparently, the reason for the abrupt departure was that another girl walked into the bar, and the date decided he’d rather be with her. She exclaimed, “I cannot do it. I can’t date men anymore.” This is wrong no matter who you are. That kind of indecency is not something you should subject other humans to.

Not just about the date’s terrible manners, but about the $450 tab he racked up before vanishing. For $450, it makes you wonder what they were ordering. That’s a massive amount of money for a first date, or any date for that matter.

Some people even urged Andi to take action, suggesting she should only pay for her share and let the bar call the police on the guy, especially if she knew his name. Others saw some twisted irony in the situation, with one commenter writing, “Doesn’t feel good, does it? Welcome to our world,” implying that women often leave men to foot the bill. Regardless of who usually pays, ditching someone mid-date after ordering up hundreds of dollars’ worth of drinks is just plain wrong.