Woman goes on one date with a guy. By the next day, he decides to test her boundaries: ‘Sounds like he is talking to a dog’

A woman on TikTok has shared the bizarre message she claims her date sent, in which he spoke to her as though she were a dog. While initially confused and doubtful that the text was even meant for her, she soon began to suspect that the alarming message had indeed been intended for her eyes.

TikToker “@datewithviola” shared the text with her viewers, saying, “I’m pretty sure it’s for another woman, but it sounds like he’s talking to a dog.” She then goes on to read the alleged message she received: “Good morning, little one. I hope you woke up and remembered who’s been a good girl and who still needs a bit of training.” The message begins, before going on to include somewhat infantilizing phrases such as “good girls stay close” and “good girls behave.”

Viola clarifies that she had apparently only been on a single date with the man, but it may well be the last with him too. She wondered if the message was intended for another woman: “We’ve only been on one date,” she says, “that text is not meant for me.”

TikTok thinks the text was meant for Viola

While Viola initially doubted that the message had been meant for her, viewers were convinced that it was. “It was meant for you,” one person wrote, claiming that the man was “testing the waters.” Others warned Viola to stay away from the guy: “That’s a message between a dominant and a submissive. Block and delete.” Meanwhile, plenty were just grossed out by the content of the message: “This would have single-handedly ruined my entire week.”

In a second video, Viola goes on to add that it may have been meant for her after all as she reveals that she had apparently responded to the man asking about the strange text. In his response, the man claimed that he had intended to send the message to his friend as “an inside joke,” and Viola had supposedly become “collateral damage” when she received the text by mistake.

The man then apparently followed up by telling Viola, “If someone was into that kind of dynamic, I would obviously commit to the bit,” before seemingly probing for a positive response from Viola.

Of course, people on TikTok weren’t buying it, and it seems like Viola wasn’t either.  “It was meant for me, wasn’t it?” she said. “100% he’s backtracking,” one commenter agreed. “Testing your boundaries. Block him. He’s abusive and a liar,” added another. Viola later returned, claiming she had found his Tinder bio, which she said confirmed he was a dom looking for a sub.