Woman takes date to Topgolf, unaware that her entire dating history was on display

An Atlanta woman who frequently takes first dates to Topgolf has shared a surprising warning about the venue’s digital login system. According to her, the system can accidentally reveal to your new date everyone you’ve previously played with.

Topgolf has long been a favourite spot for first dates, offering a mix of casual entertainment and social interaction. Each private bay allows guests to enjoy drinks, snacks, and golf games while chatting, giving people the option to end the date after just one round if it’s not going well; or keep playing if the connection is strong.

Bro Bible says, the woman, who goes by Opey Love on TikTok, posted a video demonstrating what happened when she logged in. As soon as she entered the system, her name appeared automatically, revealing her past visits. The screen indicated she had previously been to Topgolf with other men, a detail she hadn’t intended to share. In her post, she captioned the video: “POV when I’m at Topgolf and it automatically brings my name up indicating I’ve been here with a different [man].”

The system remembers every player you’ve brought to previous games

When you use an account to save your stats and game history, Topgolf remembers you and everyone you’ve played with. Your date can see the usernames of past players in your game history. If they notice a name they recognize or don’t know, you’ll have to explain who it is.

Many people shared similar stories in the comments. One person said, “Man this happened to me at an ice rink😔.” Another commenter wrote, “Ouu I’m finna be nosy next time I go now 😩🤣.” Someone else offered help, saying, “don’t worry, just say you went with me.”

The easiest solution is to play as a guest. When you don’t sign in, Topgolf won’t save your name, swing data, or who you played with. This works best for early dates when you’re not sure if you’ll see the person again. Dating experts often warn about common red flags in modern dating, and having your romantic history exposed definitely counts as an awkward situation to avoid.

If you forget and log in anyway, the comments show people find the situation relatable. Some find it funny, while others have experienced the same problem at different places. One person said they didn’t care about the awkwardness, but most people would rather avoid that conversation completely. This kind of dating mishap isn’t uncommon, similar to showing up to find unexpected surprises on blind dates.