‘I’m sorry when did it become my responsibility?’: Passenger settles into luxurious $7,000 business class seat when mom makes bold request

A $7,000 business class seat offers the best comfort for air travel, so one passenger was shocked when a mother asked her to switch that expensive spot for a seat in economy. When you spend thousands of dollars on an airline upgrade, you’re paying for more legroom, better entertainment, high-quality food, and a comfortable reclining seat. Most people expect that buying such an expensive ticket means they won’t face typical seat-switching requests.

According to Bro Bible, Ishika, who uses the handle @theishlist on TikTok, shared a video about her experience on a Qatar Airways flight. She had settled into her Qsuite and was enjoying the benefits of her expensive ticket when the unexpected request came. Ishika had bought the business class ticket as a graduation gift to herself so she could fly home and spend time with her family.

The woman sitting next to her started a conversation and mentioned how happy she was about her own upgrade. “Then she asked me if I would be willing to switch with her daughter,” Ishika explained in a follow-up video on TikTok. “And so I asked her what seat her daughter was in. I didn’t expect her to kinda go like ’32B.'”

Paying customers shouldn’t have to justify keeping their seats

Seat 32B is located deep in the economy section, which meant Ishika would have given up her spacious, comfortable seat for a cramped standard one. She refused the request. “I’m sorry when did it become my responsibility to pay for your daughters upgrade?” Ishika wrote in her video caption. “Why couldn’t you just book both of you in business?”

After Ishika said no, the mother called someone on the phone and started complaining. She suggested that Ishika probably didn’t pay for the seat herself and should “just give it up.” The video gained over 2.2 million views, and the comments section turned into a heated debate. Flight drama has become increasingly common, with passengers facing unexpected disruptions during their travels.

Many viewers doubted the story actually happened. They argued that airlines wouldn’t allow a parent to book first class for themselves and economy for a child. However, rules vary between airlines and depend on the child’s age. For example, Finnair requires parents and minors to stay in the same cabin. But other airlines like Delta allow travelers to book themselves and their children in separate cabins, especially if the child is older or another adult is present in economy.

Other commenters supported Ishika and said this situation happens often. “Yall this happens ALLLLLL THE TIME. Mommy blogs even talk about finding single people after you’re upgraded to guilt into switching,” one viewer shared. Another commenter joked, “yeah… she could pay me double and I’d trade.” One shocked viewer wrote, “I’m sorry..what?! Do people just do this thinking there’s a chance it might work?” Passengers have reported bizarre behavior from fellow travelers during flights recently.

This incident connects to a larger debate that keeps going viral online. Last year, a Brazilian woman who refused to give up her window seat for a crying child faced major public criticism, which she said led to her losing her job. These videos cause strong reactions because they show the tension between a stressed parent’s needs and a passenger’s right to keep what they paid for. If you’ve paid for a specific seat or comfort level, you shouldn’t feel forced to give it up for a stranger.