How Did a Postpartum Doula End Up Discussing Hormone Shifts at T-Mobile?
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Doula goes to T-Mobile and is allegedly asked why wives hate their husbands: ‘the baby just illuminates that’

"Flawless execution.10/10. I have no notes."

Emma Hughes, a postpartum doula based in Maine, recently shared a story about an incredibly awkward interaction she had while visiting a T-Mobile store to fix her screen protector. She shared the story on Instagram, which racked up over 423K views. In the post, she claimed. “I was like already icked out and like didn’t want to like be making conversation with” the worker since he was “being kind of awkward with me.” 

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Hughes alleged that he asked her what she did for a living. When she told him that she was a postpartum doula, who takes care of mothers and babies after birth, the conversation went downhill fast. He allegedly asked her, “Isn’t it true that after moms have babies, like they go through this huge hormone shift?” For a second, she was impressed. She claimed, “I think that’s where he’s going to stop. Because it is true. Women after postpartum is the largest hormone shift that a human can experience in their lifetime.”

When she was going to compliment him on it, he purportedly took the question in an unexpected direction, by saying that the hormonal shifts “makes them hate their husbands.” Hughes laughed, telling her viewers that maybe she just doesn’t have a filter, because after he said that, she decided to hit back.

Her viewers applauded her quick wit

Hughes claimed that she told him, “I think the hating the husbands usually has less to do with the hormone shift and more to do that the men were always useless to begin with, but the baby just illuminates that.” She laughed again and then cringed as she described the fallout, “And then it got so awkward, and I was still stuck sitting there because he still had my phone!”

It should be noted that all we have is Hughes’ version of this story. While it cannot be verified, it triggered a lot of support on Instagram. Many users took to the comments section to praise Hughes. One wrote, “Flawless execution 10/10 i have no notes.” A second user said, “I love EVERYTHING ABOUT YOUR REACTION TO HIM. May your pillow always be cool and your traffic never be jammed.” 

Other viewers appreciated the blunt honesty of her response, with one person noting, “The baby does illuminate the underfunctioning! I’m going to use that.” Another commenter added, “You said exactly what his wife is thinking. I hope that queen is doing well.” Some users found the interaction to be a teachable moment, with one person writing, “He will likely approach postpartum so different if and when he gets to experience that in his lifetime. hopefully.”

Based on the post, it seems like Hughes felt the worker was trying to flirt with her. However, we can’t confirm his intent, as it could have also simply been a poor attempt at small talk. One user bluntly commented, “Hey, as long as he felt awkward and it wasn’t you feeling that. He brought that on himself and anyway, I will hate anyones husband for free, why limit myself.”


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