A woman said she spent years with a partner she believes was never faithful to her. According to a post on Reddit from user ArrestTheCheeto, she confronted him three days before her post after learning he had been cheating on her.
She wrote that she had gathered enough information to confront him directly, and he admitted to the affair. She said that when she pointed out it was not his first time cheating, he did not deny it. She described her former partner as someone who was unfaithful throughout the relationship, since “day one.” In her post, she wrote that he was “evil in a way” she never imagined, adding that no one appeared to be off limits to him.
The woman said in her Reddit post that she then created a Facebook post detailing what she described as lies, manipulation, and abuse throughout the relationship, and that she notified other people connected to him about the alleged infidelity.
Woman describes turning a Facebook post into a paid advertisement
The woman said in her post that after making her Facebook post, the story was not spreading as quickly as she had hoped. She said her goal in sharing the information was to warn other women about her former partner. The fear of a partner’s hidden betrayal is a shared one, as a Dallas woman discovered at a wedding.
She wrote that she believed he had allegedly been unfaithful with multiple women, including, she claimed, his own brother’s girlfriend. According to her post, she was not familiar with Facebook’s advertising tools and ended up on a page with an ad-creation form.
She said she discovered that for about $6, a post could be turned into an advertisement that Facebook would run for three days, targeting users who often engage with ads. Facebook’s tools can also be used to expose deception, such as when a man’s simple search revealed a server was not married.
She said she used the tool to promote her post, saying she wanted more people to see her warning. In her post, she wrote, “Don’t take kindness and loyalty as weakness. He had never seen how savage I could be until I was pushed too far.”
The Reddit post drew a large number of comments, with many users reacting to her decision to pay for the ad boost. One commenter wrote, “This isn’t petty, though I guess $6 means you can do it for petty cash,” to which another user replied, “slow clap.”
Another commenter wrote, “Best $6 OP spent i believe,” and a separate user responded, “Hell I would donate for a billboard.” Other commenters offered supporting suggestions. One user wrote, “Pretty sure nextdoor does ads like that for pretty cheap also,” to which the original poster replied, “NICE! I’ll be back.” A separate reply added, “Also join the ‘are we dating the same guy’ groups for your area on FB.”
Several commenters expressed support for the woman and hoped other women would take her warning seriously. One user wrote, “I hope women heed the warning you gave them. Good for you. Hope you stay away from him for good,” and the original poster replied, “I hope they do too. I plan on it.”
It’s worth noting that details about the man’s identity, exact relationship timeline, and the full scope of the alleged affairs come solely from the original poster’s account.
Published: Jul 22, 2026 07:41 am