Usually, when you get a new work phone number, it’s just a boring tool for business. For California native Lauren Stevens, however, a recycled number turned into something truly special. In November 2025, after getting her new number, she started getting flooded with messages meant for a total stranger.
According to People, most were easy to swipe away, but one message stood out. “One day, I got a specific text message addressing someone named ‘Verndawg’ asking the steps to get a specific photograph copyrighted in Washington D.C.,” Stevens explains.
As a San Francisco local who has always loved film photography and storytelling, Stevens felt a pull to investigate. She teamed up with a friend who she describes as “an internet detective” to track down the owner of that mysterious number. When she got the results, she began to record her search and it’s tremendous response on TikTok.
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The search led them to Wernher “Vern” Krutein, a 72-year-old photographer and archivist who had a long history in the Bay Area. He was well-known for his work, including his documentation of the 1989 San Francisco earthquake and the collapse of the Bay Bridge. Stevens decided to reach out on LinkedIn in December 2025. To her surprise, Krutein responded immediately. He even sent her three signed posters of the city.
“He then shipped me three posters of SF signed, ‘all the best, Wernher Krutein’. As if he was going to never hear from me again,” Stevens recalls. “Little did he know he was stuck with me.”
When they finally spoke on the phone in January 2026, the connection was instant. Stevens found that Krutein wasn’t just a random person but a man full of wisdom and warmth. Their conversations quickly moved from photography to deeper topics like life, philosophy, and personal memories.
“I have always loved humans, enjoy talking to strangers and learning about people’s stories and lives,” Stevens shares. Despite their 48-year age gap, the two realized they shared a similar outlook on the world.
Both are creative, extroverted, and deeply appreciative of the people and stories around them. Stevens notes that they both made each other feel seen. For Krutein, the interest in his work was a reminder that his legacy mattered, and for Stevens, the friendship was a comfort she didn’t know she needed.
One of the most memorable moments was watching the sunset over the Golden Gate Bridge together. It was a full-circle moment for Krutein, who had photographed that bridge countless times. “To be with him in this moment, I was present and really processing how wild our impactful friendship had been for both of us. It has changed both of our lives in different ways,” Stevens says.
Usually, San Francisco seems like a perfect destination for the weird. Whether they are international sperm races or protests to support billionaires, honestly, as an ex-resident, nothing surprises me. However, a whole lot of heart, as we see in this story.
Krutein has taught Stevens to look at the world with more gratitude and to appreciate the details. “I never expected [Krutein] would change my life in the way he has, both through what I’ve learned from him and through how much I love him now,” Stevens says. “He really does feel like family to me.”
Published: May 3, 2026 02:18 pm