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Restaurant server asks couple about food allergies. Then the man refuses and says: ‘I’m not disclosing my medical information with someone like you’

That's some overreach!

A TikTok creator named @kellybrooke.m recently shared a story about a tense interaction she had with a couple at her restaurant, Daily Dot reports. The video, which has already pulled in 2.6 million views, highlights the frustration many servers feel when dealing with guests who seem to ignore standard restaurant etiquette.

The trouble started when the couple decided to seat themselves. According to the creator, this behavior is a major red flag. She mentioned that when people pick their own tables, it often gives off the impression that they believe the world revolves around them.

She noted, “You don’t care if there’s a reservation at that table. You don’t care if the restaurant is fully booked. You don’t care if there’s even a server to take care of you. You just want what you want, and you’re gonna make up your own rules so that you can get it.”

Once she approached the table to take their drink order, she offered them bread

It is standard procedure for her to check for food allergies to keep the kitchen informed and prevent any medical emergencies. When she asked if they had any allergies, the man snapped back, “I’m not disclosing my medical information with someone like you.”

This comment clearly caught her off guard. She responded by asking, “What do you mean with someone like me? Do you think I’m a government spy?” It is a strange reaction to a simple safety question, and I think it is totally reasonable for a server to be annoyed by that kind of attitude. She was only trying to do her job and keep them safe.

The interaction did not get any better from there. After she brought their drinks and bread, she checked on them to see if they needed anything else, but the couple reportedly looked at her with total disgust. About five minutes later, while she was busy carrying dirty dishes to the kitchen, the man waved her down and complained that they had been ready to order for a while. She admitted that she yelled in frustration, pointing out that she had already asked them for their order shortly before.

After taking their food order and serving the meal, she made one final attempt to see if they needed anything else. The couple just sat there in dead silence, refusing to respond. She decided to leave them alone until it was time to drop off the check. When she finally cleared the table after they left, she found a note written at the bottom of the check. The man had left a 15% tip and written, “there you go.” The creator felt that the message made it seem as if she was trying to poach their money from them.

The video has sparked plenty of reactions online. One commenter wrote, “‘Why would I disclose my medical information to someone like you’ is UNREAL.” Another person suggested, “As a former server/bartender, I wish bodycams would be a requirement for all service workers.” It seems like a lot of people in the service industry relate to these kinds of headaches.

Because this account comes from a social media post, it is important to remember that these events have not been independently verified. The details above only reflect the version of the story shared by @kellybrooke.m on TikTok. The identities of the people commenting on the video are also not confirmed.


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